Toxic people have been around for centuries. |
You’ll never be able to change someone who is toxic. However, you can change the way you deal with them. The first step is to recognize that their anger, damage and dysfunction are their problem, not yours. They are acting out of their own pain. But, that doesn’t mean that they have to contribute to your pain. When someone who is aggressively negative is railing at you, simply take what they say with a grain of salt. Don’t protest, don’t argue—that just feeds them and makes it worse. The best response is to be nonresponsive. Offer nothing more than you have to, finish the conversation, and move on. By doing that, you’re taking away any power that they have over you. Remember, you can’t control other people, but you can control how you react to them.
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