Moment in Time: "Couple in New York City"

In 1954, photographer Mildred Grossman captured this charming image of a couple strolling a New York City street.  While not "Belle Époque” strictly speaking, it does reflect a grace and dignity that died out long ago. This image shows two people growing old and alike together, facing a day with pride and resolve. They have taken the time to put on their hats, their spring-weight coats, and to carry their neatly-wrapped umbrellas. To prepare themselves for their walk, they put forth no extra effort. Dressing this way was normal to them. To be seen in a less-than-dignified way, would have been anathema to them. What I find most appealing about this image is that with the exception of some minor differences in coat length and detail, this could be a picture of the 1910’s or, even, earlier. What’s become of this sort of self-respect? What happened to a sense of stateliness? It’s not just in the way they’re dressed, it’s the way they’re carrying themselves. It’s not an arrogance, but rather a sense of comfort—comfort with themselves and with each other. We should each try to have that sort of pride each day.