Showing posts with label Friday is for Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Friday is for Family. Show all posts

Friday, August 20, 2010

Friday is for Family: The Art of Patience

We spend our entire day trying to be patient. We’re patient with our coworkers, we’re tolerant of the people in shops, we endure the craziness of the others on the road. When we get home, sometimes we’ve reached our limit and we snap at the people we most love—our family. I think, in many ways, our first loyalty should be to our families. Patience is an art that needs to be practiced in order to master it. Before you react to your child’s whining, your spouse’s nagging, or, even your dog’s barking, take a deep breath and remember who you’re talking to. If you could keep from shouting at the insolent teller at the bank, you certainly can keep your cool with your family. Let the minor irritations pass right through you. Your energy is better spent on the big things, and, most importantly taking care of your family and yourself.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Friday is for Family: Remind Them That You Care

Why is it that for all the talking we do throughout the day, we don’t take a few seconds to tell the people that we love how we feel? When we get comfortable, it’s easy to forget that everyone needs encouragement—especially the people who are closest to us. You don’t have to write a flowery poem, you don’t even have to be blunt about it. There are many ways in which we can show our affection. Bring someone a cool drink, compliment them for no reason, make a special meal, or simply take some time to be together. The whole family will benefit and you'll feel more complete as well.

Friday, July 23, 2010

Friday is for Family: Celebrate Nothing!

"Hey, it's cool in here."
Living beautifully means taking time to appreciate what you’ve got. When you get home tonight, look back on your day and find a reason to celebrate. Maybe you didn’t get a paper cut. Maybe you did a great job on a presentation. Maybe the dog sat in the fireplace. Or, perhaps, nothing of note happened at all. All the better! Make a party out of it. It doesn’t matter if it’s just you, your family or every friend you can think of, set aside tonight to enjoy yourself. Do what you love and pause for a moment to remember all the great things you’ve got going for you. If we can all do that one day a week, we might all calm down a little bit. We need more celebrating if we’re going to succeed in building our own Belle Époque.